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Det blir lättare att acceptera ett Nej till att ta på sig en uppgift när man inser att det gör det möjligt att klara de uppgifter man redan tagit på sig i tid och med rätt kvalitet

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För många år sedan fick jag anledning att fundera över vilka kollegor jag helst arbetade med på projekt. Det var så länge sedan att jag faktiskt glömt vad anledningen var.

Det gick ganska snabbt att skriva ner en lista.

Men sedan kom jag att fundera över varför jag helst arbetade med just dem. Det tog lite längre tid att besvara, men efter en stund stod svaret klart för mig: Det var de som jag kunde lita på levererade i tid och vad vi kommit överens om, eller åtminstone ringde i larmklockan i god tid om de insåg att de skulle få problem. Med andra ord, de som var självgående. De som jag inte behövde kolla och stämma av med, så att jag lugnt kunde ägna mig åt något annat som krävde min insats och uppmärksamhet. De som jag kunde vara säker på inte skulle komma efter deadline, utan leverans för att ”de inte haft tid”.

Plötsligt slog det mig!

De som levererade i tid utan att man behövde oroas var samma personer som oftast svarade nej när man bad dem om att göra något!

AHA! Kunde det finnas ett samband? Kunde det vara så att de sade nej till vissa saker så att de kunde vara säkra på att kunna leverera de saker de redan lovat?

Den dagen fick jag en helt annan respekt för när någon säger nej till att ta på sig en uppgift. Den respekten håller i sig än idag.

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